No matter how aware we are, we often find ourselves in struggle as we grow.
It goes something like this – we make a decision to take our next step. We are unsure how to proceed so we procrastinate to the point of self-sabotage. We become obsessed with this thing that we are forcing ourselves to do yet cant seem to… and before we know it, all hell breaks loose and we are slap bang in the middle of the drama of our struggle pattern.
I often wonder why we have to go through the DRAMA, followed by the inevitable breakdown, following by a junk food/Netflix binge fest until finally withdrawing enough to get a few AHA´s and make a few new resolutions and finally do the relatively simple thing that has us all tied up in emotional knots?
If we know we go through the same pattern time after time, one option is to journal our pattern and then the moment we feel challenged, we go back to it and find out where we are so we can get to the break through sooner.
I even did that once. I decided to map out my pattern so I could have a reference guide when I spun out and I found that I was able to short circuit it sooner. Eventually, I could recognize my pattern although it was such a time consuming process. Now, I find that as soon as I am faced with a choice I am unsure of and the struggle warning lights come on, I nip it in the bud and do an energetic process to find the offending limiting belief and clear it. I have also learned to reach out for help sooner if it is in my blind spot.
Its actually why most of my clients seek my services – they have done everything they can possibly think of to find their limiting belief themselves but it is in a blind spot or they have done so much work on “their issues” that they are convinced they have already dealt with it.
When we boil it all down, no matter how hard we try to justify it, the starting point it to recognize that we subconsciously create struggle & drama to distract ourselves from our fears.
The antidote to struggle starts with waking up and getting curious about the limiting beliefs and behavioral habits that are holding you back.
I have found the quickest cure for struggle lies in deep emotional work where you go within and find the limiting belief in your subconscious.
Ironically, it is the most liberating work we can do on ourselves and it is possible to shift the belief and clear the energetic block instantly.
Sadly, diving into the dark scary waters between PAIN Island and PLEASURE Island have us pacing up and down the beach trying to find the courage to take the leap of faith. The good news is that is where I excel and I can hold the space and the spotlight for you as you venture within.
All it takes, is your commitment to yourself to face whatever issue comes up for you and you will find that those dark scary waters of the subconscious contains many gifts and ALL of the answers you seek.
Remember that every successful entrepreneur was once where you are now!
The confusion; the procrastination; the self-doubt and all the what ifs just energize and perpetuate the struggle.
It takes getting into reality that things aren’t going to change, unless you do. In reality, we create struggle as a distraction from our fears.
Those that make it: draw a line in the sand and say NO MORE!
It is then, and only then that their desires become larger than their fears and they go after it with everything they have got.
Because they know that if they don’t face what is holding them back and clear it, success will remain a dream, just out of reach.
Many of us do a spiritual bypass where we use every manifestation tool, treatment, meditation within grasp, yet find that despite being hugely busy, we aren´t getting the results that we truly desire. Deep down we know something is blocking us and we have tried everything we can think of to clear it. These blocks generally sit in our blind spots and are filled with our fears.
I understand how our fears hold us back, because mine do too! We never stop learning and growing and as we breakthrough each glass ceiling, our awareness grows and we reach a new level of understanding. More possibilities open up to us and then, as it happens on every level, any resistance we have to the new desire, will come up to be attended to.
I struggled for some years before I reached my limit and did the inner work I had been avoiding and I can promise you – it is never as bad as we fear. It is the most liberating work I have done on myself and as I healed, I became lighter and lighter – physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
I did it and so can you – and you will find every step of the way liberating and exciting!
You already have all the potential you will ever need within you! Tap into your Mojo, get focused and just do it!
The dream of creating time, lifestyle and financial freedom whilst fulfilling your purpose, lives in you for a reason – give it some Champagne for your Soul and trust yourself – You have got this!
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Peta Panos is a Transformation Expert and personal development coach who specializes in helping visionary entrepreneurs HEAL the past, LIVE fully in the present and CONSCIOUSLY CREATE their desires.
Peta has gained a wealth of experience through a highly successful 21-year corporate background and 6 years as an entrepreneur.
As a Reiki Master Healer & Certified Intuitive Coach, Peta guides her clients through their own personal transformation which has a direct impact on their business results. She shares her insight into the subconscious mind and energetic realm in a grounded, practical way so that her clients receive the maximum benefit in the present and the tools & techniques needed for future transformation.
Born and raised in South Africa, this former burnt out CEO changed every aspect of her life at 41. Having made every mistake in the book as she transformed her own life, Peta has cracked the code on what holds us back; how to navigate the subconscious mind to heal limiting beliefs from the past and how to access your fullest potential so you can live the life you know you were meant for.