What happens when your heart is not in it?

You know that feeling when your heart isn’t in something. You have gone to a dinner you were really not in the mood for and cant wait for it to be over so you can do what you really wanted to do. Or, that time you stayed in a relationship waaay too long, because you couldn’t afford to pay the rent on your own.

When your heart is not in it, your mind swirls with every little irritation and trigger! You feel like you have no choice in the matter, which make you feel powerless.

But you know you have agreed to do what others wanted or expected of you, so you put on a happy face and pretend that all is wonderful in your world.

What’s going on, on the inside, is a different kettle of fish!

For a gazillion reasons you cant find it in within you to just speak your mind, because you are scared that if you do, you will upset people, get into a fight or get left.

When your heart is not in the life that you are living, it is because your head and your heart are disconnected.

I can see many reasons for re-connecting your head and your heart as the most important step to getting better results in your business and my top one is: If you don’t authentically express who you really are in your business (that you see as your purpose), you wont ever feel authentically fulfilled. This also means that you will find it very hard to raise your vibration enough into abundance, ease and flow.

It is the reason that you cant decide what you really want and you cant see how things are going to get any better.

Of course, on some level you know that you have to change some things. Its just that in order to do something about it, you know you are going to have to look at some stuff and that is in the dark terrifying pit that you have been avoiding at all costs.

When you are on Pain Island and you dream about Pleasure Island, the problem with getting there is the dark, scary waters in between. Because you can’t see what you might have to face, you assume the deep water is probably infested with sharks and piranhas. So, it’s safer to stay on Pain Island because at least you know how things roll there.

When you reconnect your head and your heart, you are able to naturally speak your truth again, very comfortably.

You feel fulfilled because you are reconnected to your inner guidance again so you can tap into what you really desire and you take inspired steps every day towards it with joy. You find yourself in the flow, very curious again and everything happens easily and amazingly fast.

People are much nicer to you and you find that you start meeting new, more interesting people and they seem to like you too.

Because your head and your heart are so congruent, you find that your pressure friends drift away because you are able to say what you mean and mean what you say with ease.

You start recognizing that your judgements are really just a reflection of your wounds and you are able to love and accept yourself through forgiveness of the past.

You stop doing things out of obligation and when you choose to attend a dinner that before you would have dreaded, you decide to make the most of it and go without prejudging it with your expectation and you end up having a great time.

The good news is that those scary “things that want to kill you” monsters that you have been avoiding are just your heart trying to get your heads attention so you can deal with them and let them go.

When you see them in the light of day, they are just little pieces of you who want to be integrated into the wholeness of you.

There are many tools and techniques to bring them into the light, hear their message and heal the wound so it no longer blocks you from moving towards your desires.

Whilst simple, reconnecting your head and your heart can give you immediate results or it can take awhile as we are all wired differently and are at different levels of awareness.

If nothing else, I hope you receive my message about how important it is to be aware of the connection between your head and your heart.

Remember that every successful entrepreneur was once where you are now!

The confusion; the procrastination; the self-doubt and all the what ifs just energize and perpetuate the struggle.

It takes getting into reality that things aren’t going to change, unless you do. In reality, we create struggle as a distraction from our fears.

Those that make it: draw a line in the sand and say NO MORE!

It is then, and only then that their desires become larger than their fears and they go after it with everything they have got.

Because they know that if they don’t face what is holding them back and clear it, success will remain a dream, just out of reach.

Many of us do a spiritual bypass where we use every manifestation tool, treatment, meditation within grasp, yet find that despite being hugely busy, we aren´t getting the results that we truly desire. Deep down we know something is blocking us and we have tried everything we can think of to clear it. These blocks generally sit in our blind spots and are filled with our fears.

I understand how our fears hold us back, because mine do too! We never stop learning and growing and as we breakthrough each glass ceiling, our awareness grows and we reach a new level of understanding. More possibilities open up to us and then, as it happens on every level, any resistance we have to the new desire, will come up to be attended to.

I struggled for some years before I reached my limit and did the inner work I had been avoiding and I can promise you – it is never as bad as we fear. It is the most liberating work I have done on myself and as I healed, I became lighter and lighter – physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

I did it and so can you – and you will find every step of the way liberating and exciting!

You already have all the potential you will ever need within you! Tap into your Mojo, get focused and just do it!

The dream of creating time, lifestyle and financial freedom whilst fulfilling your purpose, lives in you for a reason – give it some Champagne for your Soul and trust yourself – You have got this!

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Peta Panos is a Transformation Expert who specializes in helping visionary entrepreneurs who are not getting their desired results in their purpose based business.

Peta has gained a wealth of experience through a highly successful 21-year corporate background and 6 years as an entrepreneur.

As a Reiki Master Healer & Certified Intuitive Coach, Peta shares her insight into the subconscious mind and energetic realm in a grounded, practical way so that her clients receive the maximum benefit in the present and the tools & techniques needed for future transformation.

Born and raised in South Africa, this former burnt out CEO changed every aspect of her life at 41. Having made every mistake in the book as she transformed her own life, Peta has cracked the code on what holds us back; how to navigate the subconscious mind and how to access your fullest potential so you can live the life you know you were meant for.